Now I am being Bullied and Threatened using my Plea for my son Against me Online by an adult? Here is why…

11 Oct

I will admit before things got really bad with my son I now see I was being a bully myself to a certain Celebrity on twitter as my “Alter Ego”. I thought “hey they are just my personal opinions, just words. I can admit now seeing what my son has gone through that I was wrong. So I would like to share with you what another adult sent to me anonymously in my blog comment area. I can not believe that another adult would attack me using my special needs son against me. and I find it hard to believe despite what I have said in a negative manner (and I will admit some of the things I have said were pretty nasty) that this certain celebrity would want this person to use my words against me on his behalf to stop my son and possibly others special needs children from getting the protection they deserve by trying to stop me from speaking out. I just don’t understand how someone can think it is okay to say maybe my son deserves it because what his mom has said. Her is what they have said to me and I will also Copy and paste my reply. Yes my past actions were wrong, but this is not about ME. It is about MY SON

Anonymous October 11, 2012 at 7:53 pm

As a close friend of “Him” I find it hilarious that you’re asking for suport because your son is being bullied.Well, from the tweets I have seen from you and your little hater friends constantly on a daily basis, can’t say you deserve support. I’m sorry but you’re a bully yourself. Maybe you need a Taste of your own medicine.If you go to the news with this don’t think that you will get backlash with ALL the horrible things you have said about others. We’ve saved it all. I would suggest you back off and handle this privately instead of trying to get sympathy and attention from People. You have some nerve. 

kittygotclaws28 October 11, 2012 at 8:03 pm

You know it is one thing coming after me, that is fine. I have said what I have said and I will have to face the consequences of my actions. But to threaten the protection of my son who has done nothing wrong to you or anyone else is low. I am asking for support to Protect a child WITH SPECIAL NEEDS!! What I have said is between me and “Him”, if he would like to talk to me about my opinion and the choices I have made, then by all means he and I can hash it out. But this is not between you and me, you haven’t even come at me like a rational person and you hide behind an anon. I can not believe another adult would use a mothers plea for help for her special needs child who is being physically assaulted would use it against them. If any member of the party you are so earnestly trying to defended by using my feed against my family are truly upset then have them get a hold of me. If you are just trying to be a bully yourself it wont work because I always admit to my wrong doings. Stop following my tweets if you don’t like the conversations I have with my friends. BTW because of what has been happen to my son it has changed the way I see things. Have you seen me participate in really any negative conversations about anyone?

Anonymous October 11, 2012 at 9:42 pm

” BTW because of what has been happen to my son it has changed the way I see things. Have you seen me participate in really any negative conversations about anyone?”
Really? Are you on total denial. What was your last tweet? You know. The horrible one about “His” sister “Her”? Thought so. You’re so full of it. You’re just as bad as that kid who’s picking on your son. STOP bullying people and maybe good Karma will be upon you

kittygotclaws28 October 11, 2012 at 9:57 pm

BTW I was talking about PAUL Ryan (I put an extra n by accident) if you didn’t notice the hastag VPDebates go look at it again before leaving another nasty comment that is unfounded. When you do I would like you to let “Her” (H’s) sister know you made a mistake by assuming

Anonymous October 11, 2012 at 10:13 pm

Sorry Made a mistake and I’m sorry. I also NEVER stated that I was friends with her. My messages to you are far from harassment so you can stop being so OVER dramatic. Trying to get sympathy from your tweets about our coversations is not healthy. It shows that you lack something in your life and thrive off positive attention. Not healthy! Well I’m done here and have nothing more to say. But words of wisdom: treat others how you want to be treated. You can’t be a bully then get mad when someone does it back to you or a family member. You need to be a positive roll model to him and consciously you can be that when you have a DARK side of bullying. Have a nice    life and hope things work out for your son

Name have been removed to protect the privacy of all parties not involved with this conversation, and it was sized to make sure everything could be read clear. There words are in bold mine are in Italic. These are the only changes that were made.

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4 Responses to “Now I am being Bullied and Threatened using my Plea for my son Against me Online by an adult? Here is why…”

  1. Samantha October 15, 2012 at 8:44 am #

    Marie –

    I am just a silent observer–someone who began watching simply because it was better than reality TV as far as entertainment. I’ve seen the comments made regarding this certain celebrity as well as the recent situation with your son. I’ve never said anything or joined a “side” or even really cared one way or another as like I said before, my interest (if it could even be called that) had more to do with entertainment.

    I’m choosing to say something now because I believe that what you are doing and what you have said within this blog is a good thing and should be recognized.

    It is commendable to be able to openly admit that maybe you were wrong to publicly attack (because let’s face it, that’s what many people are doing) a celebrity simply because you have an opinion about his personal life. There’s nothing wrong with opinions…but there is something wrong with attempting to publicly shame someone over a matter that has absolutely nothing to do with you and should remain between him and his family. You’re right. That is bullying by every definition.

    It’s hard to admit wrongdoings and even harder to swallow pride. But the fact that you would do this for your son should be acknowledged. I hope that you are able to accomplish your goals and can make the world a safer place for those you love.

    In my opinion, this makes you an incredible mother and a good person. I applaud you for taking a stand.

    I sincerely hope that your online friends follow suit and support you in your endeavors. We should be quicker to spread good rather than negativity and I’m very happy to see you making that effort for your son. This shows me that you are raising the next generation to be better than the one before.

    Kind regards and good luck,

    Sam

    • kittygotclaws28 October 15, 2012 at 8:58 am #

      Your words really touched my heart. You are right this world is filled with Negativity that is running ramped, and for a time I was also feeding into that, and helping it grow. I will no longer participate in hurting another human being (not intentionally) Thank you Sam for letting me know that I am on the right track, because honestly these last few days have been extremely stressful for my son, for me, and for my family and I was wondering if I was doing the right thing. I also have to look at the situation and think logically (even though it is hard to when your a parent) and make sure I am doing this for all the right reasons. For a minute the anon comment had me doubt because of the horrible things I had said, but I knew if I didn’t come clean and stop what I was doing, there was now way I could protect my son to the fullest because his mother was a bully in her own right. So again thank you for letting me know I am on the right path.

      • Samantha October 15, 2012 at 9:23 am #

        You are doing the right thing. People change. People grow. People can become better versions of themselves. Don’t let some anonymous and faceless person shame you for a past you are turning away from. Embrace those who support you and continue to do what’s right for your son and your family. You’re a good woman and your son is a lucky young man to have you fighting on his side.

        -Sam

      • kittygotclaws28 October 15, 2012 at 10:03 am #

        Thank you! You have no idea the toll this has taken on my family and I. Especially when people are supposedly supporting my cause and then they turn around and use me as an example of karma being a B****. I even said they were the bigger person and I was truly grateful to them until they twisted it in to a “see I told you so” kind of thing. Who knows anymore maybe I deserve it.

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